How to Deal with Bullying as a Parent

If your child complains about being bullied at school
or if you suspect that might be happening
here are some suggestions





# Make it clear that you accept your child's reports of what is happening and that you take them seriously
She needs to know she has someone on her side who is willing to help her
Today, you are her hero



# Reassure her that this situation can be resolved



# At the same time, let her know that you do not think this is her fault
Her confidence has already taken a big hit, and she already feels like a victim



# While it is natural to want to protect your child by solving the problem for him
it will serve your child better if you teach him how to solve the problem himself
By learning the skills to stand up for himself, he can use them in other situations



# Ask your child how she has been dealing with the bullying
talk about what else can be done and discuss what actions you can both take to solve the problem
Reassure her you will consult her before taking any action



# Teach your child how to respond to a bully in a bold, assertive way



# Practice with him at home by role playing
Participation in other activities builds confidence and develops social skills
making it easier to find ways of saying
Leave me alone



# Suggest that your child stick with two or more other children when at the playground
the bus stop or wherever she comes face-to-face with the bully



# Make sure your child knows it is okay to ask for help from a teacher or other adult
Practice what he'll say so he doesn't sound like he's whining or tattling



# Determine if your child has healthy friendships with other children
If not, perhaps she can benefit by developing better social skills



# Encourage her to invite friends over to your home and participate in school activities



# If necessary, meet with school representatives to discuss the problem



# Remember, bullying is not a normal part of growing up
Help your child develop the necessary tools to stick up for himself and others




%%%%


تحياتي
نور البياتي